On the Horizon—Hire Our Vets

We have a lot of military personnel and vets living in our state. They have given life and limb to serve our country and protect us. I’m very impressed with those who have given up everything to serve. It takes a special person to leave their family and go to sometimes inhospitable places to help keep the peace.

Many people complain about where they are stationed and that we shouldn’t be in certain places. What I can tell you from talking to friends who are vets, they’re exact words are, “we needed to be there.” Here at home we tend to “arm chair quarterback” events in the world and make criticisms about things we really have no idea when in reality, we need to be supportive of the men and women who sacrifice so we can have the freedoms we have.

So how do we show support? Well here in Oklahoma we are making sure that returning vets and even vets who may have served many years ago have an opportunity to find a job. Only fitting since many of them had to give up jobs to go overseas for a few years. In this week’s video blog, we show you just how Oklahoma is helping our hero’s once they return.
Alisa Hines

Narrow your gauge

38682_418084045702_3770755_nDon’t you just love the English language? I’ve no doubt blown more than one of its standard conventions just inside these first two sentences. A good friend yesterday was telling me of his grandson, who had just moved back to Oklahoma after spending his early life in the European nation of Austria. “Grandpa”, he said, “I’m fluent in three languages: German, English, and Okie”. He then proceeded to diagram the ways a good Austrian would say “I do not have anything to eat” in the two proper languages, and in his newfound home’s unique vernacular.

I love modern English for its variety of meanings to a word, each meaning the product of another language, culture, or unique set of experiences. “Gauge” is just one such word. If you look up its definition, you will see at least three:

A standard or scale of measurement.
A standard dimension, quantity, or capacity.
An instrument for measuring or testing.
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The Durango Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad is a case in point, and it produced the inspiration and the headgear that is hat number 8 of 27, save one. This 45 mile track from the town of Durango, Colorado to the higher elevation point of Silverton was originally built in 1881, and it continues to run and serve over 130 years later. Its founders believed the choice of 3 foot narrow gauge rails would be well suited to the mountain route, and that the less expensive cost of narrow gauge construction could enhance the viability of the new railroad. I would say 130 years has proven it to be viable. To this day, it delivers people and goods up the narrow and sometimes treacherous path, the locomotive straining and steaming to accomplish its objective. The vistas encountered along the way are breathtaking.

The young couple pictured at the start of this entry first rode said railway on their honeymoon 25 years ago this summer. It was a bookend, or should I say “book beginning”, experience that has helped shape the conversation that is their life together. Just a few years ago, they took their progeny back to Durango so that the “young ‘ens”, as a good Okie would say, got to experience the beauty and majesty of the railway firsthand.
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Tomorrow, the eldest of said progeny will be “gettin’ hitched”, in further good Okie phraseology. Her parents pray that she and her young suitor will choose to use a narrow gauge as they start up the path of life together. The narrower gauge can sometimes come at a lower cost and enhance the viability of a new enterprise. It has proven itself to be worthy of the hard work life can bring, and it can deliver on the narrow and sometimes treacherous path. In choosing to steam through said paths together, the vistas encountered along the way will be breathtaking.

Don’t you just love the English language? I do, and so many of those who choose to speak it.

BOOK REVIEW – Life Lessons for Dad: Tea Parties, Tutus, and All Things Pink

photoReviewing a book about father-daughter relationships, in my own mind, introduces the potential for irony.

In a world where societal views about male and female roles are more than a little diverse, clarity and direction in this subject area is fuzzy at best.  Add a generational component into the mix, focus specifically on the relationship between fathers and daughters in the 21st century, and some might even feel downright muddled.

In fact, when thinking about this topic right now I can almost hear the thoughts of fatherhood echoing across the stratosphere:

How far do I push her in life, sports or school?

How do I be there emotionally for her in a way that honors my position as dad…and her position as a developing female?

When do I set rules? When do I break them?  And, how do I feel good about the parenting decisions I make day in and day out as her father?

There are far more questions, I’m sure, if we were to put our ear to that stratosphere that connects to the hearts and minds of fathers today.  But thank goodness, there are answers as well.  One resource with a great number of these type of answers is the book, “Life Lessons for Dad: Tea Parties, Tutus, and All Things Pink” by Michael Mitchell.

The birth of his first child influenced Mitchell to reconcile his own questions and answers, and then begin to share them through his “Life to Her Years” blog.  And, as most good things do, his project grew an audience (regular readers number in the tens of thousands, and some links have two-million+ shares) and then grew a book.  Now, that book is ready to read and share with whomever you think could benefit from the well-written and illustrated content.

I spoke with Mitchell today over an early breakfast.  His heart is full to the brim of passion for fathers of daughters, and I have no doubt we’ll be hearing more from him in the months to come.  “Life Lessons for Dad…” is a solid, well-balanced read and a book-gift worth giving.

I’m glad Oklahoma grows dads like Mitchell, and I’m greatly looking forward to hearing about how you and others respond to his first published work.  Order yours here: Via Amazon

[kelly]

Bury the hatchet

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A long time ago, Cain killed Abel. It is historical fact. It is the stuff of legend. If you are not familiar with the story, look it up for yourself. By the way, Cain and Abel were brothers: the first brothers. Accordingly, brothers and sisters have been fighting ever since.

They say that time heals all wounds. I believe that is true. For some, wounds may be healed because we tend them well, but a scar can still remain. For others, the wound festers, and time’s healing comes from time being no more for the one wounded. Regardless, the wound passes, as do we.

Hat number 7 of 27, save one, is really not a hat, but more a form of headgear. This reminder of mankind being unkind to one another is called a hachimaki. It is similar to scarves worn by Japanese pilots seen when my daughter and I were recently watching a movie about the attack on Pearl Harbor. This hachimaki was a gift from a friend, a friend descended from former foes, and it is a beautiful thing. Continue reading Bury the hatchet

Fruit and Nut Trees Native to Oklahoma

The reasons people choose to use our RDC Contact Form are vast.  Recipes…questions about relationships…companies asking us to review a product, etc.  Yesterday, however, we fielded a question about native Oklahoma fruit trees that led me to a phone conversation with my father.  I thought it might be helpful to pass the information along to others looking for the same information.

If you want to grow trees that have a good chance of survival and are native to our great state, here is a fairly comprehensive list created from using the “Forest Trees of Oklahoma” book by Dr. Elbert L. Little Jr.

List of Fruit and Nut Trees Native to Oklahoma

  • Persimmon   60 ft.
  • Paw Paw   10 – 30 ft.
  • Red Mulberry   50 ft.
  • Prairie Crab Apple   20 ft.
  • Plums (American, Hortulan, Mexican, wildgoose) all 20 ft.
  • Black Cherry   50 – 70 ft.
  • Choke Cherry   15 ft.
  • Pecan   70 ft.
  • Hickory (several varieties)   60 ft.
  • Black Walnut   50 ft.

You can also eat the berries from a Hackberry tree, but I’m not sure they are native to Oklahoma.  They definitely grow here!

There are several fruit trees that have been introduced into our forests and Oklahoma landscape, but are not native to Oklahoma.  An example of this would be a small, wild pear tree my Uncle found on his land in Clayton.  It appeared as a small, slightly roundish fruit with the texture close to an Asian pear.  It’s pretty cool to happen upon something like this, but isn’t “purist” if you want your trees to fit naturally with the original climate and environment.

There are quite a few grapes and a currant bush native to Oklahoma as well as several berries.  I don’t have an exhaustive list, but I can point you to a wildcrafting website that is educational.  The information on THIS PAGE isn’t delineated between native, and what simply grows naturally in our state because it was introduced.  You can, however, learn quite a bit by just scrolling through the info and photos.

Please make sure that you are well informed if you decide to go wildcrafting for fruit in Oklahoma.  There are many “look-alikes” across our landscapes and I want you to stay healthy!

Happy planting…and eating!

[kelly]

persimmon photo above by Rylee Roberts

EPOTM: Preview of Dibble, Criner and Payne, OK

As Rachel and I sat on a porch in Dibble, on another porch in Criner, and in the living room of a couple who had been married 65 years in Payne, we weren’t aware of something that had been happening.  Our brains had been filling up with stories of the Oklahomans with whom we were interacting.  They were filling up with the histories, and mysteries, of those we had just begun to know.

Throughout the night and into the next afternoon we continued to process all the information we had gathered on our Saturday trip to south-central Oklahoma.  Here is a sneak peak of that day, and a tiny glimpse of those conversations we’ll be sharing over the next couple of weeks.

Our hope is that we provide YOU with food for thought as well.  Thanks for coming along for the ride!